Now with that said judges love to dance around the issue and most of the time avoid the situation. Just talk about it and it may turn on you. Your question has to do with a court order and the discretion of the judge. thats the way it has been. The only person who gets hurt in these situations are the childrenespecially the ones who cant have a relationship with there father (most times) or there moms because they are tooo young to decide so the courts do it for themThey shouldnt have been left to go with them in the first place They will not beable to have a relationship with any other family members who were in there lives. Please limit your input to 500 characters. In some cases, law enforcement officers may arrest and detain the other parent if they attempt to hurt the other parent. Check the laws out you go dad fight for you kids their worth every penny. I just want to help my stepson before it is too late and he just follows in his mothers footsteps. I am in the process of filing contempt charges against him for non-payment of child support. A good judge will help you through the process if that happens. And violating a court order just hurts you in the end. At the very most, I think he should have been kicked off his bus for a week, the school didnt even know that she put him away. Will that be a consideration for the judge to award physical custody to the non custodial parent? She never gets involved in school , or doctor appointment , never call during the week to see how her son is doing . Watch on. She got me to sign a paper giving her legal custody which she told me as temporary custody. If he runs with the child, its kidnapping. I am pressing charges against my childrens mother for contempt. Anyways, my mom abandoned It was a lie. I filed for contempt of court against mother. Parenting plan states that childrens daycare is means of exchange unless daycare is not open. My girlfriend has her daughter 4 days a week and her ex has her 3 days a week. My bills are due and I have no way to pay them. The mother left the state and moved to Texas, taking our daughter and ignoring my visitation schedule. Have joint custody. The extent of legal measures is dependent on how disruptive they were . The other misconception is child support. 2: forclosed on his house leaving my name on the loan which I am now responsible for 3: commited burgalry charges which he is now in the process of going to court over and 4: has decided that living in a tent work for him. My son had been staying up unil 3 in the morning texting, on facebook, on twitter, skype, etc. I cant file fraud charges I cant turn it in to IRS for fraud and I cant file kidnapping charges. trying to circumvent my custody. What can I do. well say for intstance im the custodial parent and the non custodial parent (dad) hasnt attempted to come see his kids since our last visit to court november 2011 and i got an email from him saying hes filing police reports for not letting him see the kids again these are false police reports because he hasnt even attempted to see the kids or call and by the way he knows my address and telephone number what should i do is it even possible for him to get police reports without me there? A.H. v. well I had nothing to do, so I just sat and waited at a park and ride. I live in Oklahoma and was wondering if I filed for custody here I could get them back. She has family in Kansas, but had no job there when she moved. The Court will think youre abusive (not just of the other parent, but of your child because thats who the Court Order is for) because they will know the answer to that question is so obvious it shouldnt even be asked! my case is exactly as printed here. Long story short I went to court yesterday and lost! and so does the other alienated parent involved that hasnt seen my exs step daughter in over a year! Talk to an adult friend. You may be marginalizing the greatest thing; being a parent for something minor. Family courts wants fathers to settle for becoming a Disney Dad, one whose role is nothing more than outings to theme parks once or twice a month. All states have their laws and statutes on the internet google statutes for Interference with Custody and you can call the FBI help line for kidnapping, but try local law enforcement first unless across state lines that is Interstate Interference with Custody and is a felony. I hope not as the judge is partial to a mothers behalf. Is it legal for one parent to kidnap a child from the other parent and refuse to let them see each other? Your best help is other parents who have been through where you are now. But since he has not seen the children, bring that to court (have specific days & times documented where he missed his parenting time). The ORDER is the LAW, not either of you. Utah law states, A person who is entitled to custody of a child is guilty of custodial interference if, during a period of time when another person is entitled to visitation of the child, the person takes, entices, conceals, detains, or withholds the child from the person entitled to visitation of the child, with the intent to interfere with the visitation of the child.. In addition to child support, my husband is responsible for all the travel to see / pick up the boy, clothing, shoes, school supplies; you name it, we pay for it. A .mass.gov website belongs to an official government organization in Massachusetts. I am currently the Non-Custodial Parent, however i need to take my son the doctor, and his father is throwing a fit, and says that I dont have the right to do it on his time. They urged me to keep my meeting with CPS the following day and the doctor informed me that he would send the pics and medical record to the CPS office. He continues to do this and get away with it because he can!!!!! Thats my suggestion. One year ago my sister groomed my then 17 year old daughter to become her friend, her ally, then her drinking buddy. the only thing we have been able to do is file a show cause..but thats not until March.This is the state of Virginia, so in other words the parent who has physical custody has no rights? We had a girl together our kids are always been brother sister and very close . Why do you not have a domestic violence restraining order? How were we supposed to know if his dad authorized it? I found out earlier this year my ex has been abusing my daughters, cps told me to file a motion to restrict and po which was Granted for 60 days and which time my youngest is suffering from ptsd bad she has panick attacks 3+ times a day her school personall and therapist and pediatrician all are saying it will make things worse if I allow her to go back. Borrow money from someone if you dont have it and go get your child. Getting this reversed is as hard as it is for a man to get placement in the first place. And secondly what do I need to do to get the custody process started the fastest? imagine but when I was losing Jackson, I needed help and somewhere to My son who is 6 yrs old has to go with NCP for thirty days to be exercised in one week nonconsecutive days. It sounds fair, and it is fair. My son has been ripped from me and brainwashed by his father! Hi, This chapter covers custody of minor children, whether to a parent, grandparent, or other relative or non-relative. I agreed to giving him physical placement with joint custody. One of which is not biologically mine but I signed the b.c. I dont text back unless its directly about our son. If you have an order that is signed by a judge that is the only thing both parties are bound to. For year we live in violation or this court order. I called Cps and they refuse to do much of anything at all since most of the abuse is mental and emotional { it use to be physical} This is in the state of Nevada Legal aid has refused to help me saying they have to many clients etc. Send a certified letter to the supervisor and demand/give notice NOT TO INTERFERE WITH YOUR CUSTODY/VISITATION any longer. As for who keeps them she already knows this. If you have a child that is mad and doesnt like your rules, (mad because he lost xbox and tv privleges) if an in-law interferes and the child will not come home can i get the police involved? With out paying $1000s for an attorney, what can be done or what can she do to him or I? When my neighbor went to the grandmothers house to retrieve the baby, they told her the baby was not there, and that he had been taken across state lines to NC. The Courts are becoming aware of the monsters theyve created by giving the court-ordered mothers all the power their first assumption that they would do what is right has failed. After the papers are hand-delivered to the other parent, be sure to get back the form showing proof of servicefrom the person who delivered the papers. But she can not provide a stable living environment for her. they said it is a civil matter and I have to take it to court. I asking you guys ???? I am supposed to have visitation and be part of his healthcare and education. As far as her not letting you see your children thats called parental kidnapping she could face charges and worst yet jail time. My case is still in court as my ex has refused me visitation found a judge to remove all communication temporarly from me without cause until it goes to a trial and that has started with this new judge in a new state 18 months ago (4 judges later mind you). I wish you the best of luck <3, Take her to court,and tell the judge whats been going on if you are really serious about this. How do I get to at least check in on my baby? You should seek an order from the family law court immediately. My daughter can not stomach formula which took some time to figure out since her mother kept giving her formula when my.mother was trying to isolate what was causing her so much distress. I am worried that she is going to do this, And I want to know I am doing the right thing. The standard visitation which is four days a month is not enough time to be an effective parent to your child. Doesnt usually matter if the receiver signs for certified mail, so long as you have the receipt it was delivered, dont ask for return receipt or a signature for them to leave the mail and you just send certified (not return receipt requested). The clerk might have a form available to help you draft the motion. You can go to family court if this happens again and file a temp restraining orderbest wishes.. They live in different states and there is no custody papers filed with the courts. She used to take us to court every month for random reason and somehow she got to the point where she see him every other weekends , all holidays , and 6 weeks in the summer . My question isis there a law that refers to communicating? Montgomery co. Cps stopped Harris County Cps and aided the ncp in running with child they told h.c. Cps she was safe with the mother and grandmother knowing she was in a car wreck with the three a year earlier and DUI w/ child was issued . can a parent keep a grandfather away from his 30 yr grandson that lives in a group home ? Story short forgetabout it. Is it considered child abandonment on my part because it has been 2 years, even if he is the one denying contact? The court appointed her boyfriend as the person to supervise the visits. How do I terminate the co guardianship? We launched in 2006 and quickly became one of the web's most popular family law websites. Are you going to counseling? Ohhh I know all about the system, and how much they care about the best interest in the child(ren). The grandmother from both side may monitor the visits without any interference. My ex handed me a schedule she created which makes me only get my daughters once a month because of plans she made with the kids and is now denying me of any time with them for the holidays I am only now allowed to stop by and see them according to her. I cant believe my guys situation. Especially, her being away for a week, I feel it is important for her to at least hear me say good morning sunshine and night night sweetheart. While my ex and her boyfriend sleep on the couch. get an attorney or legal aid, if you cant afford it, or contact child protective services if you believe abuse is involved. Her being 11, she tells the police she doesnt want to go with me today because her relatives are now coming up and she doesnt want to miss them. His dad told me hed had a bike accident. As a result of her actions I hired one attorney in Florida to file the contempt order and may have to hire another there and I dont have money for either. Even though you are the custodial parent and have moved so far away from your childrens Father, you should do the right thing and promote a relationship between the children and their Father. This Spell Casting isnt brainwashing, but he opened up For 3 years he has always paid child support and been a good dad. I am in the process of having this revisited due to a contempt of court isue on her behalf; different story. Consult local statute and case law, your mileage may vary, I am not a lawyer. She has has her daughter over the week-end and my grandughter has changed. Those are my kids, im the father, why isnt there any laws to help me. We also have a Right of first refusal should the other parent be unavailable for 4 hours or more. Sorry I just made your life SUCK but know you did an excellent job as you are the runner up and loose everything to her. I was just asking because school hours are from 8am to 3-4pm and he is not allowed over nights. If my 16 year old daughter comes for a visit and refuses to go back to the custodial parents home, What are my legal rights? When a judge sees someone who is confident in what they are saying they tend to lean in their favor. Emotional damage of being denied access to parent that baby had close to day-to day relationship since birth does not count. If the Court ordered the father to monitor the supervised visitation they had a reason and you have to trust that and obey the law. What they are doing is cruel. Not only did she lie about her beating but she lied about the enviornment she placed the children back in 6 year old was sexually abused at the house th previous summer on visitation. He told my daughter that now, shes not getting her daughter back at all! I have Joint custody. To keep down confusion? REALLY??? Are they required to go with him this summer even though its not stated in our divorce decree. Unless you know for a fact 100% your child is in danger. She has proven many different times and many different ways that she does not care about the well being of the children. She needs me as much as she needs him and her time with me is a need Plus he still has enough time to make it to the visit because the parade is over at 1030am. We as people, parents, grandparents and the like, our main and only concern should be the children. I could not seeing how I was not aware of situation, we were living together at time and he phase this planned, as soon as he had custody, he left with my infant, she was 3 months at time. For information about child custody when you're not a parent, please see information about caregivers and guardians . Based on what she told me I agreed for her to put her in this daycare center, but now that we are officially going to court for child support and visitation the attorney said that my monthly obligation is $779.00 but when you add the daycare expense for $754.00 my obligation will be $1,300.00 a month which will make me lose my house and fall behind on my other debt obligations. I am writing you in desperation. Which was insane because I could use public transportation. he was in our sons life for two days before this happened the police wont do anything because its a civil matter and the dad and his mom have refused to let me see my son since this happened six days ago. So when he asked to have the first week I said no. It the end it is the best for all involved because the child comes out the looser otherwise. Or, a child could spend equal time with both parents but only one has custody and can make the decisions for the child. i had threat to kick 17yr but when turn 18yr of age. Custody cases can be complicated, and it's helpful to have someone guide you through the process. I went and filed for court the other day to see about getting the every other weekend like the normal way, my fathers son got his mail and texted flipping out. The father refuses to allow the daughters (13 and 16) to see their mother. Next business she was in court filing for sole custody. My son has just filed for custody of his 2 girls that live in Illinois, we live in Iowa. The childrens father tracked me down and I just got served what are my chances of winning in court? This would be CRIMINAL if you had LEGAL CUSTODY of ? That I want to have my son see his mothers side of the family once ever two (2) years. he stated the court order says parties children have a right to communicate at any reasonable time so he can talk to them whenever. GO GO GO GOGOGOGO NO ONE can adopt your kids if YOU are alive and have custody unless you have been considered menatally unstable,neglectful or abusive or whats that word? A month went by and I still hadnt been allowed to see her, I contacted the police and was told they could do nothing. I finally recieved a phone call today from my daughter. courts? On a day that he did not have visitation she called him and told him to pick up his son. That was in 10/10/12. Thank you Fathers Rights for your comment. My Parental and civil Rights have been seriously violated by the orange county CA court system and the dont care. My question is what are the steps I should take to try and get custody of my daughter. I dont have that kind of money I need all the advice help an pointing in the right direction I can get. You are trying to find things to be angry about. She has told us she will get the LAW if we dont make them come. WHICH IS THEIR JOB! a. Good luck! She is committing a felony and they do nothing. My ex will typically hold our daughter many days after the scheduled visitation. Here is my question To the point, my soon to be ex is seeing a convicted sex offender here in Texas. I want to get her back what do i do. getting it put off and brags about it, She has even filed to get child My ex Mother in law has custody of my two children when the court Did she have permission to leave the state with your children? But, if youre a threat to taking them away, he has no choice but to treat you as such. Even if you were in that state, chances are you would not qualify as your son is too old according to the courts. Your first course of action needs to be with the Florida Department of Children and Families. i cant stand being away from her like this. In some states and in some circumstances, custodial interference is . They have pretty wide discretion in determining whether someone is fit to have custody. Change your thinking about the situation. Skating? Well his sister is 11 and we allowed her to go back with her mom as she is not old enough to make a decision where to live. Im really like it! Nothing at all. He and his Father are both pissed because of the amount of support he has to pay and the fact that it has to be supervised and its bothering the schedule of his father!! In most cases, interference behaviors are a blatant violation of child custody orders and could lead to criminal . We have taken him to dentist appointments and will be taking him to make sure hes up to date on shots so he can start kindergarten. Trust me Sweet the police dont want to touch a child custody case with a 10 foot pole. The bottom line here is this: With all that has happened in the last few years, why did this judge deny my motion? I have two question? remember in florida its the 12.941(d) form, I had to use it and once she had to go to jail for a night she decided against playing with the order. Physical custody after death of custodial parent in Massachusetts. So I bought the tickets. Can I get arrested for custodial interference? Other defenses can include mutual consent and the belief that, if he or she did not take the child, the other parent would remove the child from the courts jurisdiction (i.e. Think if you had to pay that child support if he had sole custody and still had to provide a home for yourself. I filed CPS when my son told me that his dad had guns to his face and was telling him that he was going to kill all of us but they did not find enough, I guess you would say to charge him with anything. If youre so burdened by having children, you shouldnt have to begin with. Being a great divorced father : real-life advice from a dad who's been there, Building a parenting agreement that works: child custody agreements step by step. 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