3. Step parenting is hard at the best of times. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Should i let my girlfriend go out to places with her baby daddy still? Everytime I try bring stuff up with her she get a bit defensive but some of that is how I bring it up. And then quickly smacks my bum 5 more times. If the girl is strong enough to get through with leaving and handling her own business than she will be worth staying with but if your constantly fighting her fight's and trying to step into a situation that she is the only one that can make better for herself than your going to be fighting your entire relationship with the baby daddy because remember; they have a child and a father will fight until the end for his son/daughter against another man, but he will stop if the mother makes things clear about their situation. Hot sex tube - Search - Bing. email me if you don't mind. The doctor revealed my conception date and I was horrified. Hey please read my comment from this feed it right below yours its called Carlos . Once she has moved on and settled on an arrangement with him and the baby daddy has realized that she has moved on then you can step in and make and form a relationship around real feeling and not just the feeling of saving a damsel in distress and her feeling of, being alone with her child and no one to help her. Discover short videos related to girlfriends baby daddy on TikTok. I mean it in a nice way, I'm totally with you on this journey! Kick if you fall to the ground. Its not a problem as long as you don't mind a ton of drama. Animal behavior 101. So, her baby daddy uses her/his child against her as well. The ex on the other hand refuses to meet me. Dude (26m) is a dead beat. My baby daddy just broke up with me because he wants to see other girl, what should I do? She says that he wants to see his. 2. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. I accompany her sometimes, but hang back where he cant see, just for her protection. She was qite abrupt with her response which fits her nature when someone burns her. Dreaming Of You Fighting With Your Girlfriend. I think my gf 30f is planning on running away Monday 35f. I hadn't seen her for a two days and the distance grew between us .. Until i seen her and I worked up the strength to tell her to give me straight answers about what to do . The night was intoxicating. Don't listen to any false promises, because when it comes to choosing who goes where, the love that made that child outweighs **** around for a couple of months. I have my mom and older sister cut off. Child support is ordinarily paid to the parent that has the majority of the parenting time with a child. So i leave and the next morning she texts me good morning babe I love you too and I don't wanna lose you because you different. Initially I wallowed in self-pity and wondered how I could be so dumb. The girl has to put her foot down and stop letting her "ex" run the show. A lot of the time, the girl needs time to grow and figure out what she wants and needs for her child, but she wont get a chance if she gets into another relationship right away. Baby Daddy Issues Trust Issues am I crazy??? I have an 8 year old daughter. She also says she don't want to be with him and she loves me. in the state of oklahoma he has no rights since they were not married, my girlfriend is rebuilding her life, and trying to see her son and he doesnt allow her to call or see him. My girlfriends CRAZY BABY DADDY (HELP!!!!! If he is using their baby to emotional blackmail your girlfriend then he isn't a good father. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. I love my dad but I've made a lot better choices in my life and am more like my mother and step father which is a far better alternative. Until then I have to treat your posts as spam. I have this crazy baby daddy who is trying to take my baby a Baby daddy asked me to give him time to leave his girlfriend. I hid in shame for eight months before I gave birth to a healthy baby girl with my mom and BFF at my side. He lives with his new girlfriend and her two-year-old son . Resentment is natural particularly if he was the one dumped and he hasn't moved on or has a grudge against your girlfriend his ex based on their history. Usually violence is the answer contrary to popular belief, but it'll get me nowhere in this situation, and I'm stumped. Just rasie the baby as your own and move on she shouldn't even want her child around him Just act like he doesn't exist until he gets it together. Make him pay for the kid. LISTEN to the advice. In this case, the other parent may try to get a court order prohibiting the ex's boyfriend/girlfriend from spending the night or being allowed to visit during the ex's parenting time. The "grand gesture" is often not that grand. If **** hits the fan you want to be able to make a case for self defense and not go to jail. As I waited at the bar like bait, an extremely handsome gentleman approached me and after an hour of heavy flirting he asked me up to his room. If she says shes not interested shes not interested. He stays in touch with you even though he doesn't have to. I want my baby daddy back but he is with a new woman HELP! Hope this helps. But i dont have real advice because i havnt figured how to deal with my situation like yours.. You re his girlfriend. IM OVER IT ALL!!!!!! By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. That was the reaction last night when social media maven Supa Cent shared, via her Instagram page, what she did for not only Phil her baby daddy, but his girlfriend as well. BabyDaddyDrama 9 years ago lol thats a good one but no life is too short to waste it on fighting for a girl i learned that if she has to decide who she wants to be with then let her be with him because she never loved you at all if she has to choose #im nobodys second choice reply #14 joel 8 years ago A MUM and daughter have revealed that they both sleep with the same man - and they don't see anything wrong with it. He is on work release. My Ex Girlfriend wants a BABY ( Fortnite ) emilee is daddy 238K subscribers Subscribe 8.4K 191K views 10 months ago #ad #fortnite #gamergirl "How Many Likes Can We Get? OKAY MY BABY-DADDY HAS A GIRLFRIEND BUT HE ALWAYS TXTN ME AN Will my baby daddy ever come back to me and his daughter?? Again- when I tried to explain how I felt- she got extremely mad again and accused me of interfering with her sons life- and that she's doing everything she's doing for her son to be happy. He said come on home we will get through this, I'm on your side, the baby won't want for anything. If he still refuses, you might need to enlist the help of family members in your cause. It sounds like this will be a fight . I was just recently divorced about 10 months ago but lived a very bad relationship with him. just my opinion. *SMACK* "20, sorry . But i feel you and i pray everything turns out ok for you and her. I cut back on time with friends, cooked more meals, spiced things up in the bedroom, anything I could to put the love back in our relationship. If it's meant to be than let her go and she'll come back. You should not be threatened by anyone, period, especially with a threat of physical violence. If hes sleeping over etc that could be a problem and you should talk to her about how it makes you feel. If she does answer the phone to ask him to watch his son he's cursin her out for no reason at all or askin for money which he would never get from her in a million years. He was recently literally hospitalized because he stole 3000 from the safe of the girl he was dating about 3 months ago and she told her brothers and cousins. The sickening part is that he uses the child as a way to try to win her back. Like exactly. My four-year-old daughter gets very upset about staying at her dad's - I don't know why. But if your knocking on my door at 11 pm it has nothing to do with her. you say a mother should not start seeing someone else if the father leaves.that its not a good example.so wat if the father left to be with someone else.he breakes up a family and gets his *****.and then still gets to play daddy.and mums just got to sit at home raising her child and lonely.and you say other people are posting nonsense. When it was over, the stranger left and my boyfriend and I checked out of the hotel and headed home. I was with my new man so i called the cops to let them deal with it. My son ex girlfriend is pregnant and wants to put the unborn child for adoption is that possible or my son still have right even that were not sure is his baby! So yeah we're dating and everything's a dream.and then this happens the father of the kid comes back ..now . And I'm also feeling like she's helping her ex out more and more. Based on the countless emails and comments that I receive from victims (both male AND female) who struggle to co-parent with a narcissist ex, it's clear to me that there are no easy solutions. It is said that a woman can judge a man based on how he treats his mother. Don't provoke him. And before me- she was with the baby daddy for 4 years. so unless your girlfriend is asking for help, you really should just back off. The only reason she has any contact with him is if involves her daughter. Telling your father, "I don't want you to joke about watching me have sex . I'm not about fighting with her daughters father because I know it would set a bad example and possibly cause resentment but I've come very close to busting his teeth in . What a shit show. 3 attorney answers Posted on Sep 27, 2011 Since the child was born out of wedlock, the mother automatically has physical custody of the child. I know shell never leave me for him but its just him i dont trust because he does still want and tries to get her back but he says "hes happy that im with her making her happy" which i know is a lie but still. girlfriends baby daddy come over for holidays and spend the day with us as a family is ok? In the first year or so after you lose your Dad, people might tell you that the holidays "Are a time to remember your loved one.". For the longest time- they had split custody- she would have him half a week- and he would have him the other half of the week. I rather put a third party between us.Cause seriously people get hurt or die because of this. We are in the exact same boat. After calling me every name in the book, accusing me of having sex with the hotel stranger on the side and slandering me to everyone we knew, including my family, my now ex-boyfriend packed his bags and moved out. This situation is crazy. I really love my boyfriend we been friends for 16 years and we always had feelings for each other. My girlfriends baby daddy beat her and kicked her out, and kept her child. They are your children. I tried telling her all these things like I love you blah blah but it seemed like it was more of a way of pushing her away because all she says she is this why I don't want a relationship now because she's too stressed over stuff going on with her . Thats a given. they just know thats my daddy and hes effing awesome. Texting before sleep proves that she's met someone whom she fancies and wants to get to know better. Don't run! You live together as boyfriend and girlfriend. It wont be healthy for the child tho just because the child is going to get confused. He shares his self-improvement plans with you. all that other **** don't matter to them thats why i tried to allow him to b apart of his kids life. You may want him to apologize and see what he has done to you. We have great chemistry,spend time together with her little 3yr old daughter and enjoy eachothers company. I was told I was strange and weird for going somewhere alone, I think Parents who have big families are selfish, Press J to jump to the feed. my girlfriends abusive and manipulative dad (won't get into too much detail) want me to fight him. He calls her talking to her all crazy telling her to "Do what I told you to and and it wont get out of hand" and i get soo **** and not sure what to do.They have a son together and he uses the son as a pon against her which leaves her crying and histerical .Dude you dont have to deal with that if you dont choose to if it disrupts you life completly. Source: Courtesy of A&E / lifetime Back in September, it was revealed that Dominique Gardner, one of the young women featured in Lifetime's Surviving R. Kelly docuseries and allegedly abused by R.. Then the woman would still be yours. My baby daddy wants to fight my boyfriend, my landlord is trying to bogusly evict me, and I want to quit my job because I have a terrible boss. My girlfriend has been trying to get a divorce and has g read more Isaac, Esq. I spend a majority of my time watching him and taking care of him when his mom is at her second job. what's My girlfriend and mother of my 2 kids is pregnant with black guys baby My g Left for the baby daddy before, can I really trust her? The baby deserves a baby role model Peace. It's hard to leave someone that you love and needs your help but the reality is that, SHE got into their situation and SHE need to get out of the situation on her own. and about to take him shopping and then I asked what he had on that ticket and he hung up, sob aint called no more. Straight up he just wants to hold on to her and keep her on the back burner to fall in tell her this open her eyes yea she's thinking about her baby but she's not thinking deep enough she's just going backwards and gonna fall into the same trap she was in before she's blind right now Becasue a good guy you came along and now this either she never moved on or she wants u both just open her eyes and tell her but let her be as much as it hurts let her come to u move on if u have to and she will realize it good luck, Thanks friend I appreciate your feedback sorry for the late response .well I'm kinda out of it these days we don't talk anymore maybe once in while lil texts like hey or one worded things .it looks like its over really . It used to just be for scheduling purposes- but now she talks to him often. I(39m) ate my partners(40m) sandwich and ruined his day. To the men who are next boyfriend you have walked into drama not of your own making and you can choose to leave and walk away at anytime. you take of ya kid kuddos I wont get in ya way. "What you won't do, another woman will . Because any man who doesnt think what you have to offer isnt enough, isnt worthy of you anyway. I'm 27 and going through the same thing with what I wanted to be my girl. All was well for a few weeks after we returneduntil I missed my period. Slowly increase the amount of time of visits so that he becomes more preoccupied with fatherhood. , lol thats a good one but no life is too short to waste it on fighting for a girl i learned that if she has to decide who she wants to be with then let her be with him because she never loved you at all if she has to choose #im nobodys second choice, I'm going through the same thing now can you help me understand it cause its hard when she's with me but always sees him and goes every were with him. and its hard for us women especially to take a boy away from his father but once hes hurting our kid and not helping its time to change things. I was in this situation with my daughters dad but I told that ***** I aint got time for that sometimes women don't see that ignorant side come out until we get pregnant matter of a fact 80% of the time they are perfect gentlemen before you get pregnant you can be with them for a month a year or more some men just freak out when they find out they have a kid my daughters dad tried everything to make my life a living hell because I was dating someone new and I was scared as hell I would end up single and this mf would be on to the next chick so I changed my number I moved to another city and got myself straight thankfully the guy I am with stuck with me through it all and now we have been married a year and my daughter is almost 3 she only knows my husband as dad because my daughter doesn't need anyone negative in her life Malcolm x once said having sex don't make you father it just makes you a ***** donor being a positive influence and role model makes you a father it is a title that is to be earned and not given. I don't know if violence will work it might give him an excuse to cause legal trouble for you. sad to say bro but she ended up leaving me for him just prepare yourself is all but hope your relationship goes better, are you talking to me or him, you are very pretty by the way , oh well we broke up a long time ago she left me for him so they back together and im single again but gotta enjoy single life for now but yeah she did it for the baby she was life yeah and no on doing it because she allways end up fighting with him but oh well not my problem no more just feel sorry for the baby, So the conclusion is: he took your woman back. He kept changing the days he would have the kid. And that's if that man is gone. U sure u want to be in amongst all that drama op? My best friend hates my boyfriend and I dont know what My husband hates my mom. There are probably people who want to kill him because he owes them money. She says it cause the baby. Hey Carlos I read your post and it seems like the baby dad is just giving her the guilt trip and he is messing with her head and trying to get into her brain and control it and she's weak to even let that happen but just because he sees her happy and moved on and see a man treating her right other then him he's jealous. girlfriends dad wants me to fight him. A lot of you are in other relationships already that too is not a good example especially to your daughters at a young age. and he harasses any guy thats comes to close to me. A baby, whose entire future can be influenced by the commitment the parents have for rearing this child, should be the focal point. because he realized i wasnt playing. honestly i want my son to know who his father is because kids don't understand concept of broke **** bums. Or am I in the wrong? We arent seeing others so we have a fwb situation. My baby moms found someone else and she moved on, but i want her back. He's just ridiculous. You really should not worry about him unless he is a physical threat to either you or your girlfriend in the picture for the time being. Watch popular content from the following creators: DramaMama(@dramam0mma), Kayleigh G. (@girlthatskayliegh), casper_the_human(@casper_the_humann), FindTheDrama(@findthedrama), Jordyn(@jordynrudolph), kels(@kelshaaye), Mariah Angle(@mariahangle), Dylan(@mitchelldylan0318), casper_the_human(@casper_the_humann . Anything I say regarding it is always the wrong thing and just starts a humongous fight so I don't even say anything to it now. Here's the answer she gave. Since day one, the ex has not left her alone. Soon the time came for us to fulfill his fantasy, all we needed was a man. I see that this was a long time ago but to be frank your comment infuriates me. Now you are in drama world, and don't know what to do. And she says she loves him but isn't in love with him. After all, his conversation with her is over. But I think I can help because im a woman in the situation and my baby daddy is the dead beat. They broke up because he's an abusive, no job, no cell phone, no apartment havin, no car drivin, weed smokin stereotype. He wants to be back with her and has let it be know in the past. OKAY MY BABY-DADDY HAS A GIRLFRIEND BUT HE ALWAYS TXTN ME AN Will my baby daddy ever come back to me and his daughter?? Just leave her to sort it out herself. Now I've been staying there alot. Any advice would be so much appreciated because at this point I really do not know what to do. Happiest child in the world, very pretty and intelligent and is a wee singer. If they have no romantic feelings towards each other and get along I don't see an issue. Move far away with your gf and the kid. i dont know what to do. I Love you and hope the other women who may read this post appreciate the step dads and men who step in to take the role and responsibility like these men are. I was totally out of ideas when a few months before his birthday he asked a question that would change my life forever. Either, you spread your legs too early or didn't have enough self discipline to wait and see how many "red flags" went up with this guy. you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to the. i mean i trust her completly and understand they just trying to maintain a healthy freindship for there daughters sake. Who doesnt want to keep their man happy? I hear a lot of FEAR and what ifs'. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. Of course since he has no job, he has child support ordered on him, but hasn't paid a dime.
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